Me Post Monday: My journey
By - ThatMiraculousKid
Whoever said "you're aceflux, not *ace*" should go fuck a cactus. A replica cactus, I wouldn't wish that on a real cactus.
Never heard of aceflux, what does it mean ( don't know jack shit about terms outside of the umbrella terms sorry! )
It's an ace-spec identity, where someone might experience sexual attraction, but the intensity of that attraction fluctuates between \[any point, differs per person\] and asexuality.
Basically: whoever that asshat was, they were trying to get OP to be sexual with them, because *sometimes* they were allo, but entirely ignoring that OP could at that moment be ace.
And also your sexual orientation *doesn't actually matter* in that situation, No means No. If you don't want to fuck someone, you don't have to, even if you experience sexual attraction sometimes, or right at that moment, or towards the group this individual belongs to, or to this individual specifically. Anyone who's trying to neg you into having sex is trying to commit sexual assault and/or rape. (not everyone who's gone through that sees it as rape, but just as asexuality falls under the queer umbrella, but not all het-aces identify as queer, coerced sex is rape, even if this specific individual doesn't consider what happened to be rape)
Ah i see yeah that person is an asshat indeed
Whats the third flag?